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I’m lost on how to feel about my best friend’s pregnancy…?

So I found out that my best friend is pregnant. We are in high school and she is still with the father and they seem to be doing fine with the whole thing. Both parents know and after the initial shock of course everything seems to be ok. The problem is. she’s not able to do all of the same crazy stuff that we used to do and I’m not talking about drinking or partying. I NEVER knew how much stuff she would be unable to take part in because she is pregnant. We are going into our senior year of school and we are all trying to have as much fun as possible, but she wont be able to go on our Snowboarding Trips or to the amusement parks. We always do road trips and she’s not able to join us on those things anymore. It makes me so sad and upset because she’s the person I want there more than anyone else and I get mad sometimes when she cant come along but I feel selfish at the same time because how can I be mad at her? At times I truly regret the fact that she’s pregnant…what do i do?

You need to still be her friend – that’s what she needs most. (No matter what you feel, it’s NOTHING compared to what she’s feeling. This is ALL about her and ZERO about you.)

But you’re lucky. You’re learning a HARD lesson about getting pregnant before you’re ready, without having to go through it yourself.

Instead of being a teenage girl doing all the things teenage girls do (then later, being a 20-something young woman doing all the things 20-something young women do), your friend is now going to be a mom.

It’s terrible to squander your youth when it is so easy to prevent.

Snowboarding with Wii Fit – Playboy Cyber Girl Jo Garcia